How To Smash Through A Woman’s Bitch Shield

Why do women put on these horrible bitch shields from time to time? Why can’t they be more friendlier?

We often hear men saying these things whenever they are trying to approach someone in the club or somewhere else. The guy would approach the woman, he would try to buy her a drink or ask some sort of question and then the girl would respond back by being a real bitch.

Most guys would take this the wrong way and either become aggressive or limit themselves to someone more “friendlier”. Little do they know, bitch shields are simply a women’s defence mechanism.

A hot women normally began being super friendly as she was growing up. However years later, she would recognise that guys would just not leave her alone so she would put these bitch shields up to fend off the guys.

Hot women always get approached, they are contacted on social media, texted and more. They’ve got so many options and so many guys contacting them.

As a result, they put up bitch shields so that they can weed off the studs from the duds.

Why Do Women Put Up Bitch Shields?

So why exactly do they put up these bitch shields? “I’m a nice guy and these girls should see that in me”.

Listen man, it doesn’t matter if you’re a nice guy, in fact if you’re seen as a nice guy, stop whatever you’re doing to give off that impression. Nice guys are not attractive to women at all, it’s only a small trait of what they are looking for.

The number 1 thing women are looking for is confidence. Of course, they are attracted to a guy who has access to many resources (money, power, networks etc). However it’s the confidence that is the indicator that this is a man who can bring me closer to resources.

Now when a woman puts up a bitch shield, it’s really just a test to see how strong you are in smashing through it. If she throws you a shit test, it’s a test to see how well you take it. Are you going to back down and apologise or are you just going to flick it off and not give a shit?

One way in which you can smash through a woman’s bitch shield is simply not give a shit. If she tries to humiliate you in front of her friends, don’t let take it personally or give it any power. Just treat her like a bratty little sister and she’ll realise that her bitch shield has been destroyed.

Keep in mind, it’s just a bitch shield, it’s not her personality. It’s her shield to protect her true self from being hurt. Behind that bitch shield is a loving, caring and sensitive person and so you must remember that at all times.

I’ve been in so many situations where a woman throws me a shit test or puts up a bitch shield. However I never let it get to me and simply smash through it and talk to the girl. At the end, we’re having a great conversation, laughing and getting along nicely.

When she smiles, you know that you’ve broken through her bitch shield and you get to see her real side.

Remember, they are simply bitch shields and it’s not a true indicator of who she is. She’s also testing to see if you’re a real man.

So finally, the question remains, are you going to smash through her bitch shield or cry like a little bitch? It’s your choice.

Stay Strong and Be Relentless.

Khoa Bui

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Author: Khoa Bui

Khoa Bui is an author, trainer and chief editor of YouBeRelentless. He enjoys reading books on self development, success, productivity, money, relationships and leadership. When he’s not writing, he likes to enjoy a glass of red wine with a fine cuban cigar while watching the entire season of Entourage. You can check out Khoa’s work at

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